when will you get to when?

When will you get to when final

I so often seem to have the idea that I cannot have or do ‘something’ because …. Because I have to do something else first. Because I don’t have enough experience in the area. Because the last person who did that thing got there by a different route. Because I…

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trapped in your own success?

You’re really good at what you do. You’ve established a solid track record. You’ve got all the credentials. It pays well (or well enough). But you’re no longer feeling the energy in it. You used to love a new week. A new challenge. Making something happen. Doing something well. Now.…

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blind spots

authenticity mirror

As I was driving the other day, I was internally venting my frustration over a person who could not or would not recognize that one of their behaviors was not only  getting in the way of their own success and growth, it also had a very negative impact on others…

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letting go

To move forward into something new, we usually have to let go of something old. This can be painful. Many times what we have to let go of is not ‘stuff’. We have to let go of ‘us’. Specifically, we have to let go of roles that are parts of…

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permission to experiment

permission to experiment

We identify who we are by testing reality. – Herminia Ibarra While written for people who looking to change their career trajectory, the book “Working Identity; Unconventional Strategies for Reinventing Your Career” by Herminia Ibarra is a great read for those interested in changing any part of their life. In…

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the paradox of choice

choices less is more

Choice – the the opportunity or power to choose between two or more possibilities. Choice is powerful. It opens up new paths and horizons. But paradoxically, increasing either the number of options to choose from or the frequency of making choices can be detrimental. Too many options can lead us…

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